# How to Pick Her Perfect Valentine’s Gift *By James Hills — Updated November 2022* To most couples in love, St Valentine’s Day is a very special occasion. Many couples celebrate this occasion by enjoying a special, romantic time together and also purchase special gifts for one another to demonstrate the way that they feel. This time of year is a challenge for us men. On one hand, there are many options available when it comes to choosing the perfect Valentine’s gift, but the goal is to buy something that shows how much you care about HER. Because of this, while it might be easy to buy flowers and chocolate ... it is even more important to put plenty of thought into it beforehand to ensure that you make the right choice for your partner. You need to choose something that is special, meaningful to her and, given the occasion, very romantic. When you do, you'll be sure to reap the rewards for being the ultimate Valentine Casanova! ## Tips on how to pick the right Valentine's Gift The first thing to bear in mind is that you should avoid buying gifts that are too practical or more for you than they are for her. So, don’t buy her that great video game that YOU always wanted and she will never play and don’t be thoughtless and just present her with a bouquet of flowers, as this shows that little thought has been put into it. Instead, look at ways in which you can learn about what she really wants, as this will help to ensure you get the perfect gift that is not boring, not predictable, and really comes from the heart. Some tips to help you pick the ideal gift include: ## Think about what she likes: Make sure you put plenty of thought into the type of things that she likes. For example, does she like a certain fragrance or to dine out at a particular romantic restaurant? Does she enjoy romantic breaks and weekends away with you where you can relax and celebrate the occasion in stunning surroundings? Is she into jewellery and if so what sorts of gems and precious metals does she like? Using your past knowledge of your partner will help you to determine what she is most like to love as a gift. ## Take time to listen: Women are very good at one thing, and this is dropping hints! Many men hear but don’t listen to these hints, which is a big mistake if you want to make the right choice. Make sure you listen to what she says and pick up on any hints she drops with regards to the romantic things she likes. This will help to make life far easier for you when making your choice and will earn you plenty of brownie points when it comes to the big day! ### Beyond Detroit: Best Places In Michigan For A Guys Trip Discover Michigan's best guys trip destinations, from Grand Rapids' brewery scene to outdoor adventures in Pictured Rocks and Copper Harbor. 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You can get all sorts of great gifts for St. Valentine’s Day for your partner and you can even get discounts on a huge range of gifts from a vast array of retailers available on coupon sites, which makes it even easier and more affordable to get her the ideal gift on this special and romantic occasion. ## Don’t be predictable: If you have been buying things like chocolates, perfume, and flowers for your girlfriend year in year out, try to avoid being predictable and doing it again. Not only will she be hugely surprised at getting something totally different but she will be very impressed that you took the time to put extra thought into it and get her something different and unexpected. ## Man Gear Pick of the Month September's Pick Amazon (affiliate) ### Kenyon City Grill Portable Stainless Steel Electric Grill Why we picked it: a grill you can actually carry to the campsite, the tailgate or the cabin without borrowing a truck. 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Therefore, depending on what you are purchasing, consider having the gift personalized. For instance, if you are buying her a locket or a bracelet you could have her name or even both of your names engraved on it to add that special touch. ## Think about your Budget: It is also important think about your budget when you are choosing the perfect Valentine’s Gift. The last thing you want to do is blow loads of cash on an expensive and extravagant gift only to find you have nothing left to pay bills and rent for the month. Taking all of these tips into account, it will make it much easier for any man to pick an ideal gift for their loved one this upcoming Valentine’s Day. Details Written by: James Hills Published: 19 January 2017 Last Updated: 06 November 2022 ### 🚢Ready To Book A Vacation? Let us help you plan a cruise, all-inclusive resort, or tour for your next guys trip, family vacation, or romantic getaway. 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