# How Divorced Dads Plan Summer Trips With Kids *By James Hills, mantripping.com — Updated October 2025* Planning summer trips as a divorced dad requires navigating custody schedules, securing written consent, and coordinating passports while picking destinations your kids actually want to visit. You'll need to sync your travel dates with court-ordered parenting time, get proper documentation for border crossings, and pack strategically for solo parenting on the road. Start by reviewing your custody agreement at least 60 days out, then build a flexible itinerary around national parks like Yellowstone for teens or beach towns like Destin, Florida for younger children, and you'll create memories that strengthen your bond during limited time together. ** Questions** ** No answer selected. Please try again. Please select either existing option or enter your own, however not both. Please select minimum {0} answer(s). Please select maximum {0} answer(s). /polls/travel-and-trip-ideas/what-do-you-prefer-to-call-your-guys-trips.html?task=poll.vote&format=json 1 Guys Trips (367 votes / 46.57%) 46.57% votes Guys Getaways (67 votes / 8.5%) 8.5% votes Mancations (72 votes / 9.14%) 9.14% votes Brocations (116 votes / 14.72%) 14.72% votes [{"id":5,"title":"Guys Weekends","votes":166,"type":"x","order":1,"pct":21.07000000000000028421709430404007434844970703125,"resources":[]},{"id":6,"title":"[Guys Trips](https://www.mantripping.com/guys-trip.html)","votes":367,"type":"x","order":2,"pct":46.57000000000000028421709430404007434844970703125,"resources":[]},{"id":7,"title":"Guys Getaways","votes":67,"type":"x","order":3,"pct":8.5,"resources":[]},{"id":8,"title":"Mancations","votes":72,"type":"x","order":4,"pct":9.1400000000000005684341886080801486968994140625,"resources":[]},{"id":9,"title":"Brocations","votes":116,"type":"x","order":5,"pct":14.7200000000000006394884621840901672840118408203125,"resources":[]}] ["#ff5b00","#4ac0f2","#b80028","#eef66c","#60bb22","#b96a9a","#62c2cc"] ["rgba(255,91,0,0.7)","rgba(74,192,242,0.7)","rgba(184,0,40,0.7)","rgba(238,246,108,0.7)","rgba(96,187,34,0.7)","rgba(185,106,154,0.7)","rgba(98,194,204,0.7)"] 350 ** Vote Now** Vote Form** ResultVotes ** Why This Matters to Divorced Dads** Summer trips give divorced fathers concentrated time to rebuild routines and create new traditions with their kids outside the usual weekend schedule. - Travel creates shared experiences that kids remember long after the divorce, building emotional connection during limited custody time - Proper planning protects your parenting rights and prevents legal complications that could damage future travel opportunities - Mastering logistics now sets you up for spontaneous trips later, from weekend camping to international adventures during school breaks - Strategic destination choices match your kids' developmental needs while fitting your budget and timeline constraints - Confident travel planning demonstrates stability and competence, strengthening your role in your children's lives ** Article Index** [Matching Destinations to Your Custody Window](https://www.mantripping.com/stuff/how-divorced-dads-plan-summer-trips-with-kids.html#matching-destinations-to-your-custody-window)[Understanding Your Custody Agreement and Getting Consent](https://www.mantripping.com/stuff/how-divorced-dads-plan-summer-trips-with-kids.html#understanding-your-custody-agreement-and-getting-consent)[Passport Requirements for International Travel](https://www.mantripping.com/stuff/how-divorced-dads-plan-summer-trips-with-kids.html#passport-requirements-for-international-travel)[Smart Packing for Solo Parent Travel](https://www.mantripping.com/stuff/how-divorced-dads-plan-summer-trips-with-kids.html#smart-packing-for-solo-parent-travel)[Building Flexible Schedules and Managing Behavior](https://www.mantripping.com/stuff/how-divorced-dads-plan-summer-trips-with-kids.html#building-flexible-schedules-and-managing-behavior)[Staying Connected and Emergency Ready](https://www.mantripping.com/stuff/how-divorced-dads-plan-summer-trips-with-kids.html#staying-connected-and-emergency-ready)[Making Memories on Any Budget](https://www.mantripping.com/stuff/how-divorced-dads-plan-summer-trips-with-kids.html#making-memories-on-any-budget) No one plans for divorce when they get married. But here you are, figuring out how to make summer count with your kids. The calendar looks different now - scattered weekends instead of everyday dinners, coordinated schedules instead of spontaneous beach runs. Smart planning turns limited time into quality moments your kids will talk about for years. ## Matching Destinations to Your Custody Window Your parenting time determines realistic travel options. A three-day weekend calls for road trips within 400 miles - think Great Smoky Mountains from Tennessee, or San Diego beaches from Arizona. Full week custody opens up flights to Orlando theme parks or driving to Glacier National Park from the Pacific Northwest. Do You Love Cruising As Much As We Do? 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Tweens and teens want variety - cities like Chicago or Nashville offer museums, sports venues, and food scenes that keep everyone engaged. National parks cost $35 per vehicle entry and offer camping from $20-40 nightly, while mid-tier hotels near attractions run $120-200. ## Understanding Your Custody Agreement and Getting Consent Court orders use specific language about travel, and misreading even one clause can derail your plans. Most agreements spell out notification requirements - typically 30-60 days advance notice for trips over 100 miles. Pull out your decree and highlight geographic restrictions, notification deadlines, and consent requirements. --- {"html":""} --- Airlines, border agents, and even some hotels ask for proof that both parents approve travel. A solid consent letter includes full legal names of both parents and children, travel dates, destinations, flight numbers if applicable, and an emergency contact for the non-traveling parent. Get it notarized for $10-15 at your bank or UPS store. Start this conversation with your co-parent 45-60 days before travel. Frame it practically: "I'm planning a trip to the Grand Canyon with the kids from July 10-17 during my custody week. Can we get a consent letter signed by June 1st?" If your agreement feels unclear or your trip spans holidays, getting guidance from a local legal professional makes sense. For Texas families, [family law services in Friendswood](https://tadlaw.com/friendswood-family-lawyer/) often clarify travel consent rules so you avoid mistakes that can cost you future custody time. ## Passport Requirements for International Travel Every child needs their own passport regardless of age. Applications for children under 16 require both parents' signatures unless you have sole custody or a court order specifying otherwise. Processing takes 8-12 weeks for routine service, 5-7 weeks for expedited ($60 extra). You'll need each child's original birth certificate and the $135 application fee for kids under 16. Border agents at Canadian and Mexican crossings ask follow-up questions when kids travel with one parent. Carry original birth certificates, your custody agreement, and that notarized consent letter. Keep digital copies backed up in your email in case originals get lost. ## Smart Packing for Solo Parent Travel Hauling too much gear exhausts everyone before you hit the first attraction. Create a master packing list in your phone notes: prescription medications in original bottles, copies of custody orders in a waterproof folder, first aid basics like children's pain reliever, phone chargers, and a change of clothes in your carry-on. Pack clothes in gallon ziplock bags by outfit - one bag per day per kid. Roll clothes tightly to maximize space. Limit shoes to two pairs each: one for walking, one for water. Bring snacks that hold up to heat - granola bars, trail mix, beef jerky. Gas station food costs $6-10 per person per stop, while $30 at Costco covers three days of road snacks. ## Building Flexible Schedules and Managing Behavior Rigid itineraries collapse under reality. Plan your days in blocks, not minute-by-minute. Structure mornings around one major activity, then leave afternoons flexible for pool time or rest. Kids traveling between two households feel overwhelmed by constant movement, so build in downtime. Book only must-do activities that sell out in advance and keep 40-50% of your schedule open. Book Your Next Cruise With Heather at Flow Voyages! She is our prefered travel advisor for cruises and all-inclusive resorts. Call: 630-779-9301 or click here ... [Book Now →](https://ads.flowmediamarketing.com/transfer.html?id=617&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.flowvoyages.com%2F&site=mantripping) We may earn a commission from qualifying purchases. Set clear expectations before you leave: "We're going to have fun, but here are the rules: respect others, stay within sight, no whining when it's time to leave." Use natural consequences when possible. If your teenager zones out on their phone during a museum you paid $25 to visit, they don't get to choose the next activity. Recognize that behavioral regression is normal during travel - younger kids might have accidents, teens get moodier. Stay patient and consistent rather than overreacting to temporary setbacks. ## Staying Connected and Emergency Ready Send brief updates to your co-parent during travel: "Landed in Denver safe. Kids are excited." Update if plans change significantly. Use shared parenting apps like OurFamilyWizard for important coordination. Schedule video calls so younger children can say goodnight to their other parent. Share a couple photos during the trip - it shows you're prioritizing the kids' happiness. Carry a medical consent form signed by your co-parent giving you authority to approve medical treatment. Hospitals sometimes refuse to treat kids without both parents present unless you have documentation. Know your kids' medical information: current medications, allergies, and regular doctor names. Store this in your phone notes labeled "ICE Kids Medical." Identify urgent care facilities when you check into your hotel and pack a first aid kit with basics. Take photos of your kids each morning showing what they're wearing. If someone gets separated in a crowd, you can show security exactly what to look for. ## Making Memories on Any Budget National parks offer the highest value - the $80 annual America the Beautiful pass covers entry to all federal recreation areas. Many cities offer free museum days, typically the first weekend of the month. Beach destinations work best when you skip peak summer weeks. Destin drops from $250 to $120 nightly for condos in early September, and water temperatures stay warm through October. Road trips beat flying for 2-3 kids. A 600-mile drive costs around $90 in gas versus $200-400 per person for flights. Pack breakfast foods and eat one meal daily at the hotel to cut restaurant expenses by half. Whether you're planning an [educational father-son weekend getaway](index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1430:educational-father-and-son-weekend-getaways&catid=23:travel&Itemid=1350) or a week at Lake Tahoe, focus on experiences over expenses. Summer trips matter more when your time together comes in scheduled blocks. Start with your custody calendar and work backward, securing consent documents and booking kid-focused destinations 60-90 days out. The legal details protect your relationship, and the memories justify every bit of effort. One surprising truth about divorced dad travel: kids often remember these trips more vividly than family vacations from before the divorce because you're fully present, solely focused on them, and intentionally creating moments that matter rather than just checking off tourist attractions. Details Written by: James Hills Published: 29 October 2025 Last Updated: 29 October 2025 Hits: 801 ### 🚢Ready To Book A Vacation? Let us help you plan a cruise, all-inclusive resort, or tour for your next guys trip, family vacation, or romantic getaway. 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